Control

 

I think that it doesn’t make sense to analyze behavior for achieving “control” over others. Analysis may reveal that the entire imagination process is incidental part of nature -= the phenomenon of space-force-matter getting expressed in one of the forms called a “human being”. Else, there are countless forms and scales wherein this phenomenon gets expressed and perceived. So at a fundamental level, whatever we see around us, is incidental and relative and depends on how we choose to respond in terms of thought or how we imagine reality itself. A particular way in which words are said, or we smell or touch or see or perceive light, air, taste, fragrance etc – all creates an imagination (feeling) in our mind. These elements are neutral. But the arrangement of these – determine our security and comfort. Hence security and comforting feelings are constructed out of pure space. Space itself is relative to our scale of existence, time of existence and the way we imagine through our senses. The ingredient of space is consciousness – waiting to convert itself into force and matter! Therefore, there is consciousness or “I” in everything. It takes a form of force and its property gets changed. It takes the form of matter, and its property changes again. The state of vibrations is different in each case. Since all matter is embedded in force and consciousness – all matters are interconnected or dependent on each other. Hence nothing can be seen in isolation and nothing exists in vacuum.

The human being has the capacity to realize this and see the pattern of the forces and see this entire web of creation. In this journey, there are challenges – more so internal (whereas external events only act as triggers to generate these challenges).

The basic journey to realize this experience can be summarized as  -

Focus to what one wishes to pursue (action)

Love and trust (feelings)

Decoding by the intellect (thoughts)

Delightful activity (non judgmental and non-purposive)