There is no need....

There is no need to justify yourself – you are not defined by words or actions. There is no need to plan for some unknown event to avoid anxiety – future is inevitable. There is no need to try and change the other person – your security doesn’t depend on anybody’s existence. There is no need to seek approval for your actions or seek sympathy for your problems or issues – because they are yours to solve. There is no need to tell a person some methods of improvement – he will come to know when he is ready. There is no need to be angry about something or sad about something – both arise because of false expectations.  There is no need to review the past and express regret – there is no starting point to control the present. There is no need to stay guarded all throughout your life – life will remain unpredictable. There is no need to put up some “show” – what matters is you. There is no need to endorse anything or rebel anything – both constitute a response to thoughts and therefore, results in a trap. There is no need to be assertive – that is no guarantee of ensuring agreement and appropriate collective decision. There is no need to rush through life – time is an illusion. There is no need to rush – speed doesn’t illustrate efficiency or confidence. There is no need to expect order from others – people work as per their tendencies. There is no need to feel helpless having realized above points – existential situations are to be seen in a proper perspective. There is no need to feel unworthy of anything – it is the behaviour of the mind. There is no need to attempt transcendence – it is not an intellectual journey, but involves only stillness of the mind.